Monsieur my ex called.

He was aware I am single now and no he was not and nor am I thinking of rekindling anything.

He Was basically talking and offering a friendly ear to the fact that I am single again!!!

He made one comment which really was bugging!

He said that he moped for 6 months after i dumped him and that he was never dumped by anyone before me.

I told him clearly that the reason for breakup was that we both want different things. He had made it clear he cant think of a marriage in the future and I wanted to know where our relationship was going.

He said that he didnt want to promise anything but take a day at a time and was the kind of guy who doesnt promise false stuff but believes in delivering on it.

So does he mean to say I ditched him without giving him a chance for proving himself?

I dont know... He finds it cool that I dumped 2 of my ex(including him) and so one time I got dumped was not a big deal ,Said if I was happy with Mr AD while we dated then it was good. Just sad that relationships never work out.

Anyway, I dont understand men!!!!

First they make it clear they can never marry... and then they tell me they needed more time to see how things went?

Well sorry!!!

I am like Monica Geller of Friends!!

I need to know if there is a possibility of marriage and to know where a relstionship is going and if it has a future.

I need to be told that I am loved and important and needed!

I need to be hugged and heard and need to feel secure!

I guess I know what I want and will not settle for less... thats why it hurts!!