The Green Ogress

Thats when my mum was born. Its her Birthday today! Happy Birthday Mum!!

I am taking her out for dinner today and Mr AD will be there to. It's a formal meeting between Mr AD and mum.

I had asked him if he would join Mum and I for dinner and then realized that it sounded too ..well.. "officialSo I blurted that he doesnt have to. Now a week later Mr AD called and said he wanted to join us for dinner if my Mum is OK.

I told him that if he felt cornered or even remotely uneasy he doesnt have to but he stopped me from blurting more by saying that ,"I have though over it and would love to meet your mom and be there for her birthday".

He also stated that if his Mom called me I should speak to her and introduce myself.(Apparently he has called me once from his mom's mobile phone and now my number is stored there).

Over all it's a day i am looking forward to (there are butterflies in my tummy).

I also bought mum flowers and cake and will take her to a Thai place which she loves.

Well i was very naughty ,thats for sure

Since there is renovation work going on in my house during the day(the time i sleep) i am barely getting much of the Zzz this past week. So Mr AD suggested that this saturday i catch up on zz's at his place and his mum and sister will be out from morning till evening.

I lied to my mum about going to a "girl" friend's place and Mr AD picked me from work at 5 AM.

We grabbed some breakfast and were out till 7 AM. Then his mom left and we drove to his place.

The bummer was that his sister was sleeping and had decided not to go. (OOps)

So Mr AD sneaked me in and I slept (rest edited). It was heavenly to sleep in his arms.. He definitely knows how to hug

His sister left later that morning and He work me up at around 4 PM.

We went out that evening for dinner and basically that was one heavenly Saturday.

Sunday we watched Terminator Salvation(Fantastic Movie) and he talked of some serious stuff about his past relationships. etc.

He held my hand once and just simply said "I so need you in my life"

Over all.. Great weekend and now back to the old Grind

Mr AD's dog has gone wandering in the afternoon when the main door was left accidentally ajar.

She has not returned and he and his mum are very worried. SO am I.

She is one grumpy bitch but cute as hell and ofcourse i dont want a dog going missing,she might get hurt.

****Update***

Just got update. Mr AD's bitch has returned..

*whew*

It's so different being with the person who loves you unconditionally( I hope)

Mr AD and I didnt get much time together because my Brother was visiting town. But we still met on Saturday at 6 AM for breakfast (post my work) and Sunday afternoon for movie(X-Men Origins:Wolverine).

We spent time together and even though it was woefully short I still was happy just being with him.

Today he came over to pick me up from home and drive me to work and we got talking and some of my "secrets" came out..

He didnt even once behave weird about things I told him and he even guessed about my "pregnancy" scare when i was dating my 1st Ex(OK i have 2 so dont think i have to number them all) .

He didnt flinch when i told him that i had to leave home town because of being molested and beaten and then being slapped with a "attempt murder" by the guy who attacked me!!! yes, sadly thats justice in india that a 16 year old girls gets beaten up (with atleast 20 witnesses)and instead of the attacker being charged, i get charged for it. Anyway, i was found innocent and the judge realized after 5 years i was innocent.

I told him all this.. I was confortable yet i feared he might decide to just dump me and go..

He hugged me and told me.. that he appreciates my honesty and respects me even more for sharing this information.He told me my past doesnt bother him one bit.

I told him that the reason i am telling him all this is because if he feels i have too much "emotional baggage" he can decide to leave now than later when it will hurt even more.

He told me some of his secrets too..(His ex got preggers and didnt tell him and secretly got an abortion and during their breakup fight she told him)

I love him more for being who he is and for accepting me just as I am..good and bad!

He even told his mom about me( not the gory details just that he likes me and when she asked about my family he told her that my parents are seperated but i live with my mom).

I was mortified that he told his mom about the "divorce" since most people are old fashioned here. But he calmed me down and told me that even if his mom and had an issue , it doesnt matter because it doesnt matter to him),He said what matters is that I love him just as i do always.(now thats not a prob at all)

I just cant stop tearing up a bit.

I Thank God for bringing him into my life. I really do..

I just hugged him.

I Just saw him coming into work just now .. and I feel like giving him a big hug(sadly cant)

It sure has!!

I couldnt stop staring at Mr AD when he just arrived at work and looked so cute half sleepy.

you think I am

PS: we are chatting and also went for a short break together .

I wish I could spend every Minute with him...*sigh*

He Said it..  

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He said it yesterday- Sunday...

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This weekend was Fab!

Saturday I went to see a couple of houses which i can rent,however the prices were exorbitant the house it self was in such bad shape (read white tiles browned, leaky loos,bad plumbing and construction and horrid Kitchen) , i was in a bad mood wondering why do I even bother! I mean the Estate Agent actually had the balls to tell me that if I need something better I need to pay more..( I was looking a range of 8000- 9000 Rupees per Month and thats not cheap at all)

Then I returned home and got ready to go out with Mr AD and just as we drove from my house... It started to pour..... I love rains so that was not a bad thing.

WE drove for a while ,got a few beers(Peroni,Carlberg & Corona) We also got a few Subs from Subway( Teriyaki Chicken,Grilled Chicken Breast, Chicken Ham)

He then Suggested we go to his Best Buddy's place and watch the T20 World Cup.

I wasa bit apprehensive since He was introducing me to his close Friend Circle( all Men).

Still we went there stocked with beers and the guys were a bit err surprised to see me (honestly , they were not expecting a girl)

But we got through the introductions and sat down to watch the match.

The guys were very interested to know where i am from, and how do I know Mr AD etc...

They were a pleasant lot! I liked spending time there.. They ofcourse decided to pull my leg and involve me in a bet on which team wins..

Since I know Less than Zero about Cricket ,it's no use talking cricket.. .. Was fun..though.

We had beers and then Sandwiches and even had Chicken Biryani.. Scrummy!!!!

Then I reached home at 3 Am and Mum scolded me for staying out late.

Next day Mr Ad took me to see Angels & Demons! I loved the movie... Since My Mum was out he and I got beers and some food and watched Cricket at my place.. Cuddled up on a sofa... mmmmmmmmmm... heavenly...

Oh and the coming weekend I am again going out for a weekend trip with Mr. AD.. More lies to be told to mum since if she knew she would never let me go without a huge fight!!!(I avoid scenes).

I also did something which Ideally should have freaked Mr AD out and made him run a mile.. But he didnt(Bless him).

On Saturday when he was dropping me from post Cricket meet at Friend's place, I was slightly tipsy and feeling risque... Int he car while he kissed me , I uttered that I was a little beyond "falling for him".

Instead of staring at me petrified ,like a rabbit or squirrel, he smiled and kissed me more.

Next day he calls and we meet as usual..

It is A Beeeeeautiful day!

WE had the first rains of the season , marking the beginning of the Monsoons!

The evening was beautiful after the spell of showers , so, Mr AD picked me from home and decided to drive me to work.

On the way to my work He had to take a detour to his house to pick some papers up. He actually Invited me in.

I was terrified.. I thought "i cant meet his mum right now.. I am not mentally prepared". But his mum was out and his sister also had left to meet her fiance.

So i was shown around the house and the redecoration work ,which is still in progress, done.

I was introduced to his pet Dog ( a mongrel) .. A very Jealous Possessive Dog i must say... Each time Mr AD so much as Stood next to me or Hugged me she would go crazy and bark the whole place down..

So I decided it's time I made friends with her.. So I asked Mr AD to stand near his pet and then i gently approached and tickled her ears.. Thats it.. She didnt bark !!!!!

I gave Mr AD a few ideas on improving his room too ... and a few Ideas for his Living room etc.

Mr. AD even got out albums of his babyhood and other recent pics and I saw a lot of pics of his family holidays..

Mr AD was real cute as a baby... very chubby and adorable!!

I enjoyed my time looking around his place and he will pick me up tomorrow and take me shopping for some new accessories for his living room tommrrow

Am so Looking forward to it.

Did I spook Mr AD? I think I did!

Maybe I did it on purpose to see if he will stay or run!

Well here goes..

We were chatting and i casually.. very casually asked when will i get to see his re-done house and room. Ofcourse I mentioned that He could click Photographs and show me if he wanted to..

His reply?

Mr. AD: Maybe last weekend of the Month you can come over and see.. There are still some final touchups being done in my Mother's room!

Me: yeah maybe ,sure..(and i changed the topi and we chatted more)

Today we were on call again chatting and discussing mundane stuff , when i told him that i was trying to see if I can get a Job where I can work Day times and get public holidays and decent money( I know I am asking for too much here)

I had tried in this telecom company and got a feeler that they have openings in a different city/state.

He asked if I am rejecting the option of relcoating becaue of him.. at that moment I said NOOOO..

Later I sent him a text:

"What if I said part of the reason for not relocating was you?".

His Reply was :

"Mwah"

Then I (surprised) sent a text:

"Are you not spooked?"

His Reply:

"I am spooked! Am never sure how to react".

Hmmmmm.. Actually I am spooked too but anyway .. I let the topic go.. Didnt wish to drag it.

While I was drafting this blog.. Mr Ad Calls and apparently not that spooked because he spoke like usual and told me "he is missing me" and then stated he will call me again before he goes to sleep.

I wish I could read His thoughts and know whats going on in there!!!

This Month is a crutial month.

I am paying iff two debts!

1. one that I owe Monsieur(the ex)
2. A loan I own the bank.

I have one more debt.. dratted credit card.

If anyone ever asks me about Credit cards.. I will say one thing.. Keep away from them.. dont use them (well that's how it works in India)

India is still a country which likes to deal in cash.. Yes there are establishments which accept cards , however most peopel prefer to swipe debit cards instead of credit cards.

I am Happy I am paying off my dues and soon I will be debt free and then I can breathe easy.

I am making changes and I plan to lead a life with no credit cards and no debts as much as Possible...

SInce I already have paid Monsieur.. thats now a closed chapter. Completely closed!

I love Mr AD.. He is the best thing to happen to me ever! *crosses fingers*

He is kind,considerate,a bit aggressive at work but a loveable teddy with me,he has his flaws but I love him for it all.

Best of all he is Honest.. and He accepts me as I am!

This weekend we were broke!

I mean really Broke!

But Mr AD still came to pick me from work at 5 AM and we drove around , it was beautiful at that hour. Still dark and cool and beautiful roads.

Hardly any traffic and devoid of the usual heat and dust of the afternoon.

We went to a small but famous place for Breakfast-Scrambled eggs,Toast,Butter,Cheese Omlette and Tea(Iranian style).

Was fantastic and easy on the pocket too

He then dropped me home at 8 Am and i slept till 1 PM.

I started my period so I was fairly cranky very much on painkillers.

In the evening he drove over again and we picked up a 6 pack of Corona's *bliss*

We drove around on the beautiful Ghats for sometime and then went to this other small place where they sell Chicken Tikka Wraps on road stall.

The Wraps were simply delish .

Imagine- chicken Tikka pieces,Mint Chutney,thinkly sliced onions on a tortilla bread which was fried one side with an egg!

It was superb!

We drove to another romantic lookout place and stayed hugging for a couple of hours . I was cranky so I got extra Hugs Plus I also got a chocolate Doughnut and a brownie

Sunday was a day at home...

Today was pay day so got our Monthly Salary! Mr Ad drove to pick me from home and drop me to work...

Few more hugs and kisses *bliss*

Oh we were caught by one of the HR people at a fast food place where we wer haveing a snack

Mr Ad feels that now it will be officially known to my project people... that we are dating!!!