The Green Ogress

I just didnt want to blog because i was counting seconds till Thursday will be over and Friday here.

Now i will be counting when Friday gets over so I can go for a drive with Mr AD when he picks me up from work

Over all.. I am being very patient!!!

Signs of Cute love.

1. Text all day

2. Talk before you sleep,after you wake up and in between texting

3. Call each other "honey","sweetheart" or "baby" and more such nicknames

4. Text each other 5 mins after you hang up" miss you" and get the same back with "miss you loads and loads"

5. Cant wait to meet each other

6. He meets you working double shifts just to drive you 36 kms home

7. He gets you chocolates when you are low

8. He thinks your quirky habits are "sweet"

9. He likes to hug you

10. He kisses your nose

11. And the forehead

*Check to all*

I am mooching about at work waiting desperately for the weekend(well friday end of my shift which is Saturday 3 AM when he will come over to pick me and drive me home)

*sighs*

Seriously the weekends are rushing by!! a bit too fast for my liking!!!!!

On Friday Mr AD spend double shifts at work so he can be with me post work at 3 AM and drop me home!

Sadly we only had a couple of hours to yap since i had to go to the airport to pick up my brother who arrived in town for a week.

We drove stopped and talked and talked and then stopped and it was the center of town.. the main market place.. empty at 4 AM absolutely empty.. and He kissed me..(Hands again at respectable place on my arms or holding my hands fingers entwined )

It was sweet and gentle and at the same time passionate.. and i felt .. i felt safe... i didnt feel threatned.. or feel like i am being pounced at.

He dropped me and went home . We couldnt meet on Saturday evening but met again for a couple of hours on Sunday( my mom has now started giving me the mummy stare of "i know something is more than cooking")

We went to a sports bar on Sunday afternoon and watched Cricket over a couple of beers.

Here is a really really sweet part..(i had my period) and so was moody and in need of chocolate. he actually stopped and got me one when i was not expecting it and complete with paper napkins and a disposable spoon..

It was sweet enough to melt me!!

Also while we were talking there was this one conversation where i felt like i had to tell him something about my past as he was telling me a whole lot more.. When i tried too.. he was i was struggling with words and simply held my hand and said ," you dont have to tell me anything you dont wish to. Everyone has a past. I know i may not sound convincing but i will prove it to you via my actions that what you did back then is not of importance, what you are with me now is".

He dropped me home with a (few)kiss(s) and a hug.

Once home - mum and bro with my friends waiting to give me a hard time.. I got a lot of indirect comments and was subjected to a lot of leg pulling.

I tried to feign indifference.

We kept texting through out.

Monday- He drove to meet me and pick me from home and drop me to work.. on the way bought me coffee and brownies again

We are now planning a beach vacation( with seperate rooms) .

I told him I am not ready yet and he simply said that the move was completely left on me. If i wanted to progress it i will have to take the lead else he is simply happy spending time with me.

*sighs*

Ooh another text message

Yep its true I do!!!

Well.. here's the story..

Mr AD called me today in the afternoon( i sleep afternoons and work nights) I answered phone in my groggy state.

Now i am the kind of person who wakes up slowly. I might act silly and stupid in my groggy state and you may feel you are speaking to a 3 year old

So here i am talking to him my brain barely registering the conversation so i giggle a lot. Why? you ask?

Well i giggled because i knew i was sleepy and i knew my brain was not registering the conversation and since i was in my silly space i was giggly.

*yeah yeah very amusing*

He found that very amusing but he kept the phone as he got the message that i was not drunk but sleepy..

When i called him a few hours later fuly awake.. This is what he has to say

Him: PF you sound totally "hot" sleepy , I had to look at my phone screen again to ensure i was speaking to you.. Usually you have a slight nasal twang andthen you sounded husky and sexy.

Me: *giggled* *giggled*

Him: Yea thats another thing , why did you giggle so much we i called earlier?

Me: well *ahem* i am a giggly person , and i was sleepy and I giggle when i am nervous or sleepy or amused... either way..

Him:Thats sooo cute!!!!

Me: *blushes* thanks

Ooh and he is coming to pick me up from work tomorrow at 3 AM

I will say we are in the cutesy phase of relationship( WIth Mr AD).

We text like crazy all day

Call each other more than 4 times a day in between texting.

Plus there is this thing about me he finds the "cutest".

It's my blushing . I easily embarrass( yes despite my shameless flirting) which he finds adorable. So today he set out to do just that. He did not say anything inappropriate but still made me go all beetroot ears.

I got a lot of "I miss yous" & "Wish you were here" and "Hugs" . It was really sweet

Over all text frenzy.

I am on cloud 9 still..

Mr AD called today afternoon post his work and asks me to not drive down to work as he will be coming over to pick me and will also drop me .

He stays near our work place so he has to basically drive against the direction to work pick me and drive back.

My mum gave me knowing looks and dropped hints on her thought that something was cooking between us. I acted dumb

He drove and stopped at a decent shaded tree line area ( to talk)

Agenda- Talk about "US"

Him: PF I wanted to meet you and talk because we spoke on phone yesterday about our "kiss" but i wanted to meet and see you and talk.

Me: *Blushing bright red* err yeah about that.. it was not the beers acting.

Him: same here , I like you a lot and i didnt feel right disucssing us over a phone call.

Him: PF there is something else i want to tell you but.. well.. you know.. You can Trust me. I didnt come to your house on Sunday with the thought of kissing you or taking advantage of the fact that you were alone.I genuinely like you a lot and would like to meet you often and us spending more time together.

Me: *nods* *blushes beetroot* ahem! well you know i like you too and like spending time with you. I know i can trust you.. if you had an ulterior motive you wouldnt have waited till when we had to leave to pick my mum to kiss me. *darned ears turned red*

Him:I felt that you liked me but i was not sure, i felt something when we spent time during the beach and then after that on Tuesday when we went out and drove to the hilltop and talked.You have not said before that you liked me *whew*

Me: I am a bit embarrassed discussing my feelings and so there might be times i may not be able to say something but my actions do speak louder.

Him: I saw that..thats how i got the courage to speak up.In the past i have never come across anyone with whom i can share my thoughts and you are just amazing. I love the way you think be it religion,karma,friends,family anything. I respect your thoughts a lot.

Me: *blushes still* Thank you i respect your thoughts too.

Me: you do know my mum thinks something is cooking between us.?

Him: yeah i know and my mum is asking where i keep rushing off too after work.

*both Grin*

Him: PF i am also not sure what you have heard about me ,because there are some rumors about me at work and I can just say.. I am not all that.

Me: I dont believe Gossip , as much as i love hearing them, I would rather you tell me the truth. I will not judge you based on it so dont worry.

Him: *Smiles more at me*

Him: We meet this weekend then?

Me: yes!!

Him: *Gives me a Hug*

Him: Get used to me hugging you a lot.

Me: Yeah well ofcourse

Then drives me off to work and drops me.

Currently- Text Frenzy on!

tralalalalalala

Dear Dear God! The weekend was *sighs* surreal once again.

SATURDAY

Got off work at 3 AM and Mr AD was waiting in the parking to pick me up.

I had the time of my life sneaking out so we dont get caught and my heart beat like a hammer because i was sneaking and its was risky to get caught by office colleagues and then stuff.

Mum was out of town visiting her sister. So he asked if it was okay we go for a nice drive.

He drove to this little picnic town an hour or so drive away. It was a beautiful dirve the town is like a hill station and drive romantic.. Oh yes it's a very lonely drive at 3 AM

We stopped near a cliff over looking the town below(no one around except the road and forest land).

We talked and talked and talked..

Ooh the thing he wanted to ask me was( i think he ment if we are officially dating but the question was put forth in a very round about way)

His exact question was :- " PF , if i were someone from work and saw us sneaking ,meeting then i would think something is going on, what would you think?".

I ask him outright i he is playing with words and he just smiled *Pfft*

So i replied i would think we were seeing each other if i were to see us sneaking like this.

We stayed till daybreak and drove back enroute stopping for icecreams and some breakfast.

He again asked me "PF do you ever go for a drive like this with other friends often?"

Me- No.

so which he replied ,"then why with me?"

I simply told him i liked him and knew he was'nt going to like pounce on me.

*he smiles*

Very very round about

Then he stated he wants to take me out to dinner and i accepted. He dropped me off at home at 10 AM and i slept for a few hours then.

*constant text message frenzy was on the moment we both woke up*

SUNDAY

He drove to meet me around 5 PM and was at my house.

We watched the Indian Premier League-cricket being held and had a few beers.

He wanted to know where we should go for dinner and what i feel like (Mexian,thai etc) I had decided on Thai when my mum called and stated she was returning and needed someone to pick her because she will reach late night rather early morning. He offered to pick up mum as it was going to be pretty much after midnight.

We then kind of ditched our plan of going out and instead ordered Pizza and saw the match and drank a few more beers.

*no he didnt lay a finger on me even though we were absolutely alone*

We sat, talked about everything possible and it was so much fun.

infact after Pizza's he even ate what i had originally cooked for mum and loved eery bit of my simple homely dish.( devoured it so i had to cook again for mum when she got back)

When we were leaving to pick up mum from the Bus station thats when things changed.

He bent low and kissed me.

It was a gentle kiss and his hands were in their respectable place on my arms.

Happened for a quick 4 mins and then we drove to meet mom.

So i had to introduce him to mummy and he behaved impeccably.

He drove us back ensured we had gone into our house before driving off after giving another hug.

MONDAY

We were both feeling a bit shy after that Kiss.

He asked me if it was something i did because i had a few beers and i asked him the same.

Basically both were in agreement it was definitely not the beers at work.

He suggested we meet up and kinda discuss what's going on between us.

He then asked me out for another dinner date !

Currently Text frenzy on!

I think we are officially Dating!

I am by nature and by gender a curious being!

You cant leave a sentence half said and expect me to sleep peacefully.

Topday Early Morning Mr. Ad calls as usual and while chatting about work he suddenly begins to say something and then stops

Me: What? you were saying?

Him: No no I wont tell you now, i want to see the look on your face when i tell you.

Me: What? What?

Him: absolutely not. keep wondering!

Me: *grumbles* darned cats will die(curiosity killed them)

Him: *laughs*

Today

We speak today and he still hasnt disclosed a thing. He simply has called me and planned to pick me up post work and drive me home and then maybe , just maybe, he will tell me what this "thing" is.

Over all i have to sneak out of work because i dont want anyone to know who i am meeting.

Plus we have Dinner plans for Saturday

*blushes*

OOH forgot... He sent me an SMS yesterday

Quote Mr AD ," I wake up to a up to a couple of your text messages, you make my day. Dont stop".

I feel as if we are at snail speed. The Week cannot end soon enough.

I am excited * chews Nails* regarding my date.

Hey a Question - if a Guy wanted to be invited to your house for a BBQ party( with my friends around) thats a good thing right?

I know my friends wont hate him (he is younger than i am but slighty balding)but will definitely give him a hard time considering they all treat me like family and believe that any Man i date has to be given the 3rd degree!!!!

So lets see what happens there! it's not time to "meet family and friends" yet.

Today he called me at 6 PM and we talked for an hour and i also got a call from him at 4 AM(time when i return) and just checking and chating for 10 mins.

I gave hims a few CD's of the movies i like and he sent me an sms," I guess from now on will watch any movie you recommend blindly".

The movies in question are

1. Iron Man
2. Chocolat( Juliette Binoche)
3. Good Luck Chuck(technically i have not seen this movie)
4. Forgetting Sarah marshall
5. Surf's up
6. Happy Feet
7. Wanted
8. You dont Mess with the Zohan
9. 40 year old Virgin
10.Made of Honour
11.Dumbo

I wanted to give a few old movie of Clark Gable and a few of Audrey Hepburn but that was kept for later

*Please Thursday end soon and Friday end sooner*

I was off work pretending to be sick yesterday as I just didnt have the energy to get up and go to work while it was 41 degrees C outside.

I stayed indorrs and drank a lot of cold water and ate watermelon to keep up my spirits!

I was lazing about when Mr AD calls. He got off work at 3 PM(works 5 Am till 3 PM) and generally called.

When i said i was home he asked me out . I agreed.

I wore Levis diva denims and a red/gold silky top and leopard print ballet flats (got from Spain).

He picked me up at 7 PM ( and said "hello" to my mum)and we went to this amazing sizzler place in town for beers and food.

I ordered carlsberg and he ordered Budwieser with fish and chips!

We talked and talked till I pointed out it was 9 PM and he had to get some sleep as he had work at 4 AM.

He stated he didnt need to sleep now and we continued conversation and he held my hand once.

Around 10.30 We finally left and he drove me home but then there was this nice place near my house which is right up at a hill top (Very secluded) so he drove up there instead.

We stayed there till 11.30 PM and talked and talked..

He told me( and i Quote) ," I like you a lot and i love spending time with you".

And we made plans for the weekend too.

He gave me a hug once again and dropped me home

.. today afternoon 1 PM he calls again.. just to chit chat !

*blushes*

OOh here is the dish on my Beach weekend!

SATURDAY

3 AM- left work and reached home at 4 AM

5.30 AM- Mr. AD picked me up from home to drive to the beach which is 4 hours away.

6 AM- halt on the way to stock on a few cans of beers.

8 AM- still on the highway talking 19 to a dozen... I told him how I had never been to this small town near my city where people got for short breaks during the monsoons. So he drove me into that town driving all around. He promised he will take me there when it starts to rain in June.

9 AM- realized the rest of the office colleagues have not even started towards the beach.

11 AM- reached Beach we had some breakfast on the beach.

Noon- checked into the hotel. So far so good.

We continued chatting, the only 2 people in that hotel (it was a small bed/breakfast place).

People from work finally arrived around 2 PM and some 3.

AD and I had already been to the beach and jumped into the ocean once... due to the high midday heat i had a an little issue of nose bleeding... which ment i had to sit in a shaded hammock and wait for the bleeding to stop..

Mr. AD sat right next to my hammock.

I was slightly dizzy post the bleed so slept for 2 hours. Meanwhile Mr. AD slept for a good 5 hours.
Both had not slept since Friday!!!!!!

5 PM- had some snack and back to beach into the water (didn’t wear any swimsuit because the crowd was not exactly the kind where I can... wore tee's and sarongs and into the beautiful ocean.

8 PM- beers opened and the night began.

9 PM- all played a few rounds of cards while drinking. Nice music and ocean breeze.

SUNDAY

00 AM- Dinner!!!!??? And then another round of cards... I drifted from my chair next to AD and got my Jeff Archer book sank into a Hammock and read and slept...

Somewhere around 2 AM I went into my room to sleep... while the guys still played cards.

03 AM- Mr. AD came knocking asking me if I wanted to go to the beach for a walk.

We (with a few others) walked to beach and stayed for 45 mins... Once we returned the remaining 4-5 went off to sleep.

I got my blanket and took a hammock and got cozy...

Mr. AD sat next to me on two chairs trying to use it like a lounger .We were joined by another Manager and we all talked in low voices. Apparently Mr. AD and I are the new "hot" gossip at work... and our boses are just dying to get some dirt on us.

The other manager left to sleep and it was just the two of us.

He suggested another walk on the beach.

This time, we were Alone!!!!

We walked/talked and it was such a beautiful full moon night. The sea looked like silver.

(No hanky panky)

He was a perfect gentleman and the max he did was as we walked to the hotel - he held my hand.

Back on the Hammock and it was now close to 5 AM I was dozing off... he was next to me on the chair...

He woke me up at 6 as sun was up and it will get too hot... Went into respective rooms and slept...

11 AM- up, breakfast and drove back home.

We reached my city in 4 hours and got a beer and again parked the car on a small hillock near my house... and talked- He about his likes/dislikes, parents, sister, friends relationships, marriage, babies, plans to buy a house with a garden etc

Me about my dislikes and parents, friends, err children, plan to buy a house with a garden... it was the best time ever.

5 PM-He dropped me off home and another side hug later he was gone.

I texted him "Thanks, I had a fun time. We should meet sometime"

I get a reply “I had a great time too, definitely we will meet, I’d love to"

MONDAY

4 PM- I get a call from him... checking up on me and wanted to know if we can meet since he was near my house... Sadly I was on my way to work.
He asked if we can meet this weekend... to which i said -Yes.

*smug smile*

Okay this is what happened!!!!!!

Today early morning (3 AM) i was at work getting some last minute stuff for the beach weekend done.. and also i am getting a new team so that work and handover too.

I was about to leave when Mr AD states stay back so we can finish the last minute stuff and I wil drop you home.

Which i agreed too.. (he stated he was anyway going towards my place to get some takeaway which stays open all night )

We left from work in his car and we had a nice long chat( i live 39 kms away from work) and it was fun.

He dropped me home and asked me for some water to drink before he headed back.. i nicely gave him a bottle and we exchanged some movie CD's too.(he never once entered my Flat and infact was waiting for me at the landing.)

Now the interesting part..

While exchanging "bye's" and "see you later's" he err gave me a side hug.

Hmm hmm thats a total "we are friends hug " right?

Am not sure what title i should give this post thus the above "Ho,Humm"

Am planning for the weekend beach getaway which hopefully should be a success.

I have pakced my suimsuit(a modest Nike maillot ) and sarongs and shorts and tees and stuff.

All done!

Work wise- we are in trouble today.. some work billing goof up again..

Oh all in a day's work i say!

Mr AD (The Cute guy)is being moved into a different time zone( work wise) .

I work at present US Eastern time zone in India and he will be moved to Early Morning Indian time next week. Which effectively mans he will arrive at work an hour after I leave for the day.

So bascially this last weekend was probably the only ever..

It was good while it lasted and another nice memory to tuck away

Seriously Surreal ..

Friday:

19:15 - my friend calls hysterical, she was on the streets crying,dehyderated and with nothing mbut a bit of cash. she has been having trouble with her marriage since over a year now and seems something just snapped and she walked out wan

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I think I maybe!

The Guy ( the one at office i hyperventilate about) played a joke on me.. atleast I think he has.

I have not been able to verify it.

Infact I have been acting weird and asking him if "he was pulling my leg on Fool's day"

He simply smiled and said- Nothing!

The joke was simple.

He said he was being shifted to a different department and that i am going to have to take the handover of his team.

i will not say that he actually stood near me and also kinda placed an arm around my shoulder

Over all if he is being shifted- GOOOOD!

I will stop flirting!!*ha!*

*as if*