I spoke to Boss yesterday( sobbed a bit while speaking on phone but not the uncontrolable types just a wavering voice and a few sniffles)

Told him how Ex and Wife and threatning ,how I am not a grad and that i lied and its my fault I did but now these people are after me to ruin it all.

This is how it went

Me: Hi boss I need to tell you something which is a very serious matter
Boss: Yes tell me I wanted to call you but since you just landed i though would give you time to rest
Me: Oh I am fine thank you!
Me: Boss I am being threatned and blackmailed each day by ex and wife.. its because I am not a grad and when ex was hiring me he asked me to lie and say I am one cause it is important that I am a grad.
Me:(sniffs) I know I did wrong.. but now they have been callin and threatning and i thought its better you know it from me than from anyone else.

Boss:(takes a deep breath) hmm.. You told us that you are a grad?( holy Shit)
Boss: hmm now why is EX doing this?
Me: you know in 2006 when loads of things happened and you know EX has threatned back then too.. well things took an ugly turn (families involved) and i did and said things which were not nice and I regret it..

Now its revenge time for ex.

Boss: hmmm! you really need to get over your ex..

Me: Boss I havent been in touch with him since 2006 December! Trust me.

Boss: Okay now here's the plan. I dont care if you are a grad or not. You work is excellent and i have always told you that.The issue is that if it gets to HR then we might have to deal with it.
I am not making any promises PrincessF (used my real name) but I have some goodwill and standing in the company and will use it to do whatever I can.

Me: Thank you!

Boss: Now you do realise that the repurcussions could be that you may be asked to leave

Me: yes I completely understand!

Boss: but let me see what I can do. you relax now and dont worry too much

Me: Thank you!

(Disconnects)

Today get a call from him early morning

Boss: PF? How are you?

Me: better, thank you!

Boss: yesterday you were very distraught so I am calling today to talk!

Me: Okay!

Boss: I spoke with Top Mangement about your issue. I can assure you ,you have nothing to worry about.If your EX & wife call and threaten again tell them that I (company) will issue an official letter to their company telling them how they are sexually and emotionally harrassing my employee.

Me: (speechless) Thank you!

Boss: I dont have to tell you that you have been one of the most dignified people I work with and your work was never in question.And you need to fight back, in the past as well you took it all and were all upset and tears! it has to stop.. fight back and dont take any bullshit from them.

Me: Okay ! I .. I I know I should!

Boss:Also you made a mistake and i hope you realise it now?

Me: Yes I know i made a few errors in judgement and i realise it!

Boss: I also dont have to explain that the people you are currently reporting to dont need to know this at all? Because they all feel they are casanova's and hung like elephants! they can take advantage!

Me: (chokes) ooh err yes I do! I just spoke to you about this.

Boss: good from now on lie a bit low and be careful, but dont worry!

Me: I understand ... thank you!

Boss: dont mention it and now how was Spain?

Well thats it...